Saw this list a while back and found it interesting haha. (p.s. those points that are in bold are things that I guess that I have sort of accomplished and my own comments are in brackets below)
101 things to do before you settle down in your 20s.
101 things to do before you settle down in your 20s.
1. Learning how to cook something besides ramen noodles and eggs.
(MY FAVOURITE NISSIN RAMEN. eh I baked cupcakes during chinese new year. And I can cook rice, although there's quite a high possibility that my rice will turn into porridge LOL.)
(MY FAVOURITE NISSIN RAMEN. eh I baked cupcakes during chinese new year. And I can cook rice, although there's quite a high possibility that my rice will turn into porridge LOL.)
2. Discovering what “truffle salt” is, and the magic it creates.
(WHAT'S THIS MAGICAL THING?? ENLIGHTEN ME.)
(WHAT'S THIS MAGICAL THING?? ENLIGHTEN ME.)
3. Making elaborate, delicious dinners for one, and not feeling like it’s a waste.
(Erm wait till I learn how to cook properly first.)
(Erm wait till I learn how to cook properly first.)
4. Throwing a surprise party for someone you care about.
(Perhaps on someone's 21st birthday??)
(Perhaps on someone's 21st birthday??)
5. Tasting tons of different wines, and finding out which one you actually like the most.
(Not a good drinker here.)
(Not a good drinker here.)
6. Buying yourself a big pizza, eating as much of it as you want, and not feeling like you’re a bad person for it.
(SOBZ I want to do this but FATZZZZ.)
(SOBZ I want to do this but FATZZZZ.)
7. Learning to ride a bike.
(thanks xiumei and other 4H girls for teaching me during chalet and Joseph for being such a great teacher during 5J chalet again haha!!)
(thanks xiumei and other 4H girls for teaching me during chalet and Joseph for being such a great teacher during 5J chalet again haha!!)
8. Riding a bike in the city.
9. Stretching.
(who hasn't done this before wth.)
(who hasn't done this before wth.)
10. Buying flowers for yourself.
(is it very sad haha but I bought fake flowers from daiso for myself before)
(is it very sad haha but I bought fake flowers from daiso for myself before)
11. Owning a plant without accidentally killing it.
(sorry. Killed it.)
(sorry. Killed it.)
12. Owning an animal (even a hamster) and caring for it well.
(Sorry. Died. Didn't care for it well.)
(Sorry. Died. Didn't care for it well.)
13. Seeing how much exercise you can get done without actually “working out.”
14. Popping a bottle of champagne for a special occasion and serving all your friends.
(Wait for my wedding everyone!! You're all invited LOL KIDDING.)
(Wait for my wedding everyone!! You're all invited LOL KIDDING.)
15. Hearing the glasses clink, and knowing that you did something worth celebrating.
16. Eating good Belgian chocolates.
(GIVE ME IF YOU HAVE PLEASE.)
(GIVE ME IF YOU HAVE PLEASE.)
17. Setting a physical challenge for yourself, and attempting it. Whether or not you succeed is not as important.
(attempted insanity but failed after 1 week plus haha.)
(attempted insanity but failed after 1 week plus haha.)
18. Drinking eight big glasses of water a day.
(I hate the taste of plain water.)
(I hate the taste of plain water.)
19. Switching to tea, at least for a week.
(If I have tea, I'll do this.)
(If I have tea, I'll do this.)
20. Learning to say “I love you” to your friends.
(Haha I do say this, but not very often. It's important not to simply say these words because they'll lose their special meaning and become meaningless.)
(Haha I do say this, but not very often. It's important not to simply say these words because they'll lose their special meaning and become meaningless.)
21. Learning how to drive stick (you never know when you’ll need it, until you’re confronted with a stick shift and have no idea what to do).
(no idea what this question means, but if it means the gear on manual cars, then YES!! oh and I went for my 3rd lesson today xD)
(no idea what this question means, but if it means the gear on manual cars, then YES!! oh and I went for my 3rd lesson today xD)
22. Trying the one food that has always grossed you out.
(tomatoes. disgusting.)
(tomatoes. disgusting.)
23. Learning that pretty much anything tastes good when sautéed in garlic and olive oil.
24. Living on your own.
(sobz my parents are too controlling and they won't allow.)
(sobz my parents are too controlling and they won't allow.)
25. Paying your own rent. And your own electricity.
(phew. $___$)
(phew. $___$)
26. Learning how much you learn to cut back when you’re paying your own utilities.
27. Finally Organizing all of the papers and knick knacks that always collect on your table.
(Haha finally did that in March but it got messy within a day. As usual.)
(Haha finally did that in March but it got messy within a day. As usual.)
28. Mopping your floor just because you like to see it sparkle.
(I actually first learnt how to mop the floor when I was working at stickhouse and then after that, I think I developed this jiepi-ness and I just have to mop the floor even if there's one drop of water, and I like my floor to be clean and sparkly.)
(I actually first learnt how to mop the floor when I was working at stickhouse and then after that, I think I developed this jiepi-ness and I just have to mop the floor even if there's one drop of water, and I like my floor to be clean and sparkly.)
29. Re-doing your entire closet.
30. Seeing how far you can get using just your feet.
(too lazy.)
(too lazy.)
31. Spending entire days going out of your way to discover parts of your own city that you haven’t seen before.
32. Traveling at least one place on your own, even if it’s just a road trip out to the beach.
(Sobz parents don't allow.)
(Sobz parents don't allow.)
33. Getting lost on a pedestrian side-street in a city you’ve never been before.
34. Watching a place go from “postcard you keep on your desk” to “somewhere you’ve actually been.”
(UK. WHEN CAN I GO TO UK??)
(UK. WHEN CAN I GO TO UK??)
35. Creating a work space, even if you don’t actually have a desk at work.
36. Filling it with images that inspire you.
37. Learning how much you can do when you cut out all distractions.
(oh yeah discovered this when I didn't have data plan last time. My life started to be filled with distractions when I got data plan and had access to all the social networking apps. LOL hashtag first world problems.)
(oh yeah discovered this when I didn't have data plan last time. My life started to be filled with distractions when I got data plan and had access to all the social networking apps. LOL hashtag first world problems.)
38. Kissing a stranger on New Year’s when you’re in a new place, and knowing that you’ll probably never see them again, but being totally okay with that.
(oooh exciting I guess, but I don't want to kiss a stranger.)
(oooh exciting I guess, but I don't want to kiss a stranger.)
39. Trying a nice restaurant by yourself.
(Next time I'll do this!!)
(Next time I'll do this!!)
40. Reading a book for hours in the back of a busy cafe.
(Oh this is cool shall do this after my contract ends.)
(Oh this is cool shall do this after my contract ends.)
41. Having a long conversation with a stranger at a bar.
(socially-awkward turtle here. plus, I won't go to a bar.)
(socially-awkward turtle here. plus, I won't go to a bar.)
42. Discovering your “signature drink.”
43. Becoming a master of the “Skype date” or “Skype friend date.”
44. Writing letters.
(I LOVE WRITING LETTERS AND RECEIVING THEM. It's so fun and meaningful and it just really shows your effort and how much you appreciate someone. Be honoured if you've ever received a letter from me ok!! Haha just kidding.)
(I LOVE WRITING LETTERS AND RECEIVING THEM. It's so fun and meaningful and it just really shows your effort and how much you appreciate someone. Be honoured if you've ever received a letter from me ok!! Haha just kidding.)
45. Sending thank-you notes.
(Always.)
(Always.)
46. Practicing your handwriting.
(I used to own this notebook which I used for practising my cursive writing and my handwriting using my left hand HAHA.)
(I used to own this notebook which I used for practising my cursive writing and my handwriting using my left hand HAHA.)
47. Picking something off a vine and eating it fresh, and wondering why you ever ate anything else.
(Is it safe.)
(Is it safe.)
48. Telling someone you like them first.
49. Making the first move.
(not sure what aspects this question is asking, but yes I've taken the initiative when doing certain stuff.)
(not sure what aspects this question is asking, but yes I've taken the initiative when doing certain stuff.)
50. Holding hands during a movie, and then pretending you didn’t as soon as the movie’s over, because you’re both too shy.
(wait till I'm interested in someone LOL.)
(wait till I'm interested in someone LOL.)
51. Listening to the advice of someone much, much older than you.
(BU TING LAO REN YAN, CHI KUI ZAI YAN QIAN. But sorry, I don't really trust their advice.)
(BU TING LAO REN YAN, CHI KUI ZAI YAN QIAN. But sorry, I don't really trust their advice.)
52. Talking to someone on their 50th wedding anniversary.
(don't know who is married for 50 years wow.)
(don't know who is married for 50 years wow.)
53. Talking to someone who has been divorced.
(my ex-colleague. It was cool and funny.)
(my ex-colleague. It was cool and funny.)
54. Getting really into a new TV show, and spending an entire weekend watching the whole thing.
(TEEN WOLF.)
(TEEN WOLF.)
55. Meeting someone who’s just obsessed with the TV show as you are.
(CECILIA AND DOREEN!!)
(CECILIA AND DOREEN!!)
56. Feeling like you’ve found a soulmate.
(my girl friends, especially Doreen and Wendy muacks.)
(my girl friends, especially Doreen and Wendy muacks.)
57. Fixing something yourself, even something as simple as a broken curtain rod or lampshade.
(haha what on earth is this question talking about.)
(haha what on earth is this question talking about.)
58. Calling someone for help when you really need it.
(I think I seldom seek help from people, because I don't really like to impose on anyone and I'm not someone who's really comfortable with sharing my problems.)
(I think I seldom seek help from people, because I don't really like to impose on anyone and I'm not someone who's really comfortable with sharing my problems.)
59. Answering your phone for a friend at 3 AM.
(wait till someone calls me at 3am.)
(wait till someone calls me at 3am.)
60. Having your heart broken.
(thank goodness.)
(thank goodness.)
61. Thinking it will be the end of the world.
(HAH during the earthquake in Taiwan.)
(HAH during the earthquake in Taiwan.)
62. Realizing it isn’t.
(We had a smooth ride back to the hotel.)
(We had a smooth ride back to the hotel.)
63. Finally feeling ready to fall in love again, even though you know you might end up with another broken heart.
(I don't want a broken heart~ *cues beyonce's broken-hearted girl*)
(I don't want a broken heart~ *cues beyonce's broken-hearted girl*)
64. Attending a wedding.
65. Attending a funeral.
66. Understanding that all things, good and bad, are only temporary.
67. Learning how to fight fair with someone, and how to not go to bed angry.
68. Helping your friend when they are having their heart broken.
(thank goodness this point is not in bold because it means that my friends are broken-hearted and I do not want that to happen.)
(thank goodness this point is not in bold because it means that my friends are broken-hearted and I do not want that to happen.)
69. Learning that no two heartbreaks are the same.
70. Applying for your dream job, even if you think you’ll never get it.
(HAHAH wait till I find out what it is.)
(HAHAH wait till I find out what it is.)
71. Practicing job interviews with your friends and family.
72. Going into an interview feeling nervous, but ready to try.
73. Keeping a journal.
(always.)
(always.)
74. Going back and reading your journal even a year later, and feeling really embarrassed of all the feelings you had, but glad that you wrote them down.
(hahaha all those stupid entries I wrote in p6.)
(hahaha all those stupid entries I wrote in p6.)
75. Going to a concert with friends.
76. Finally embodying that corny “dance like no one’s watching” bracelet you used to have.
77. Remembering why it was so great.
78. Feeling like you’re 16 again, in the best way.
79. Taking a thousand pictures with your best friend, and keeping all of them.
(but first, let me take a selfie LOL. I took super many with Wendy haha shame shame.)
(but first, let me take a selfie LOL. I took super many with Wendy haha shame shame.)
80. Accepting that you’re not going to look great in every photo, but that it doesn’t matter.
(well-established fact. many unglam shots on facebook.)
(well-established fact. many unglam shots on facebook.)
81. Intentionally taking pictures of yourself from your “bad angle.”
(doing unglam shots with friends.)
(doing unglam shots with friends.)
82. Learning to love your nose.
83. Learning to love your stomach.
84. Spending a whole weekend afternoon just walking, with no particular destination in mind.
85. Remembering how good it feels to just walk.
86. Calling your parents out of the blue.
87. Calling your grandparents out of the blue.
88. Remembering that you are so young.
89. Feeling like a kid.
(ALWAYS.)
(ALWAYS.)
90. Feeling like a grown-up.
91. Realizing that you are both, and neither, and will always be between the two.
92. Hugging someone for just a second too long.
93. Wanting to hold onto them forever.
94. Realizing that you are more than enough by yourself.
95. Loving your own company.
96. Making yourself laugh.
(good at self-entertaining LOL.)
(good at self-entertaining LOL.)
97. Comforting yourself when you cry.
98. Stretching again.
99. Standing in the rain without an umbrella.
100. Understanding that tomorrow is brand new and full of possibility.
101. Realizing that you have your entire life to be in a relationship, and maybe it will happen soon, but maybe it won’t — and there are so many wonderful things to accomplish in the meantime.
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